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Duke Dennis received a six-figure gift from fellow streamer Kai Cenat for his birthday.

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Kai Cenat just set the bar sky-high when it comes to birthday gifts! The popular Twitch streamer went all out for his friend and fellow AMP member Duke Dennis, dropping a serious bag for his 31st birthday.

Kai Cenat Shocks Duke Dennis With an $80K Gift Live on Stream

Duke Dennis brought in his birthday live on Twitch on February 25, with AMP members Fanum and Kai Cenat joining the celebration as the clock struck midnight. The crew took celebratory shots and turned up to Drake’s latest hit, NOKIA.

But Kai had something extra special up his sleeve. After stepping away for a second, he returned with a small gift bag. A pair of chopsticks from Duke’s favorite restaurant—a lighthearted tease before the real surprise.

Kai then left again and came back with a much bigger bag. Duke pulled out a shoebox, took one look, and immediately threw it across the room before running to hug Kai.  Kai had gifted him a pair of the rare Freddy Krueger Nike Dunks—one of Duke’s all-time dream sneakers.

After regaining his composure, Duke fully unboxed the sneakers, revealing them to the stream. Kai mentioned the sneakers were a size 13, and there are only two pairs in the world in that size. Oh, and he dropped a $80,000 after purchasing them from a baseball player.

Duke was too stunned to speak but made sure to shower Kai with gratitude for the insane gift.

Social Media Reacts To The $80K Surprise

Of course, social media had plenty to say about Kai Cenat’s over-the-top gift.

Over on X, @victorianJedi wrote: “With friends like Kai Cenat, you are set for life. That’s a true friend right there.”

X user @LeArielleSimone chimed in: “I love seeing people spoil their friends. This is real love to me.”

Meanwhile, @inspirebyliving joked: “I think I need new friends. I can’t even get a birthday phone call from my friends.”

And @Ocho_tres3 wrote: “That shoe better be vibranium cause ain’t no way.”

The reactions kept rolling in on Instagram, too:

Instagram user @shesosiyah_ commented: “Omg. Do you know what you could do with 80K? 😩”

Another user @shanita.belen wrote: “I love that Kai pays attention and listens to his friends. Duke has been wanting those forever, lol. I love their friendship! How can you honestly hate on that? W brotherhood 💙”

Duke Dennis Shares His Gratitude To Kai Cenat

Still in shock over the pricey gift, Duke took a moment to express just how much Kai meant to him.

He reflected on a time when Fanum told him that Kai was destined to be one of the biggest in the world—and now, seeing Kai’s success, he couldn’t be prouder.

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Nah kai really just looked out for duke with the shoes 🔥 #kaicenat #dukedennis #fyp♬ original sound – Plug Finesser 🔌

Kai and Duke have known each other since 2020 when Fanum introduced Kai to the AMP crew. Shortly after, Kai became the sixth member of the group, joining Duke, Fanum, Agent 00, ChrisNxtDoor, and ImDavisss. The group has been creating content together ever since, even sharing a house where they produce viral videos and streams. Most recently, AMP expanded its brand beyond content, launching its first skincare line.

Related: Bae Watch! Kai Cenat & His Girlfriend Gabrielle Alayah Get Cozy While Turning Up At Her Birthday Bash (VIDEOS)

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Khloé Kardashian Confronts Malika Haqq About Rob

Khloé Kardashian has confronted Malika Haqq for not telling her about previously hooking up with her brother, Robert Kardashian.

Khloé Kardashian Confronts Malika Haqq For Not Telling Her About Hooking Up With Robert Kardashian

On Thursday, February 27, a new episode of Khloé’s podcast, ‘Khloé In Wonder Land,’ was released via YouTube. To note, the episode featured Malika and Khadijah Haqq. About 37 minutes into the episode, Khloé reflected on Malika and her brother Robert’s relationship.

“It started off as a joke to see if it would, like, ruffle your feathers,” Malika recalled to Khloé. “This is once you and Lamar were married, and Robert was living in your home, and I’m there every day.”

At that point, Khloé decided to call her brother to allow him to also weigh in on the conversation. Once Rob was on the phone, he and Malika exchanged their love for one another. Then, the pair began to seemingly joke about their sexual escapade.

“…It was great sex!” Rob told his sister. “It was very passionate and very good. It was a great, passionate connection. It was everything I needed. You like that, Khloé?”

More Details On The Pair’s Sit Down

At that point, Khloé ended the call with Rob to continue the conversation with Malika. Furthermore, she accused Malika of going “behind” her back and “f*****g” her brother.

“It wasn’t behind your back,” Malika replied. “Was I supposed to say, ‘Hey, Khloé! Just an announcement…?’”

In turn, Khloé said, “Yes!” adding that she would’ve informed Malika and Khadijah if she had relations with one of their loved ones.

“I mean, just tell me afterwards, like I told you!” Malika told Khloé.

In response, Khloé alleged that Malika never informed her about her sexual relationship with Rob. Instead, Khloé explained that somehow she “found out.”

“It’s cause I stumbled upon —” Khloé explained, choosing not to finish her statement. “…I should’ve known that you were having intercourse with my family member. My brother! Him and I could be fraternal twins. No, you don’t owe me an apology. What I’m saying is if I were to sit on your brother’s d**k, I would be calling you afterward.”

Watch their full conversation below.

Before Khloé Kardashian’s Sit Down With Malika Haqq, She Spoke About Not Taking Cheating Personally

Before Khloé Kardashian’s sit-down with Malika and Khadijah Haqq, she made headlines for a comment she shared during her podcast episode with guest Jay Shetty. As BlkCosmo previously reported, the two were discussing infidelity, and Khloé shared that she doesn’t “take cheating personally.”

“I know what was done to me was not about me. I know that was about them, and they have past trauma that they’ve never healed from,” she said before explaining what happened when she asked past partners about their infidelity toward her.

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Oprah Winfrey and Whoopi Goldberg Reunite at the Oscars – Black Excellence Wins Big

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Oprah Winfrey and Whoopi Goldberg Reunite at the Oscars: A Night of Historic Moments and Black Excellence

Oprah Winfrey and Whoopi Goldberg have once again reminded us of the power and impact of Black excellence at this year’s Academy Awards. As they pay tribute to the legendary Quincy Jones, the two icons made it clear that Black history is woven into the very fabric of Hollywood. Their heartfelt remarks were a powerful reminder of the legacy that Black artists, innovators, and activists have built over the decades. “When we talk about Black excellence, we’re talking about Quincy,” Oprah said, and we couldn’t agree more.

But that wasn’t all. This Oscars ceremony was filled with groundbreaking moments that continue to make history for Black talent in the entertainment industry.

Zoe Saldaña: A Historic Win

Zoe Saldaña made history at the Academy Awards as the first Dominican actress to win an Oscar, clinching the Best Supporting Actress award for her unforgettable role in Emilia Pérez. This marks the culmination of an awards season like no other, as Zoe swept every major supporting actress award, including the Golden Globe, BAFTA, and SAG awards. It’s a remarkable achievement and a moment of pride for the entire Dominican community. Her win isn’t just a personal triumph; it’s a beacon of representation and success for people of color in Hollywood.

Paul Tazewell: A Trailblazer in Costume Design

History was made yet again with Paul Tazewell’s win for Best Costume Design for his extraordinary work on Wicked. Tazewell is the first Black man to win an Oscar in this category, making his mark as a trailblazer. He’s only the second Black person to ever win in this category, following in the footsteps of Ruth E. Carter, who made history twice for her work on Black Panther. Tazewell’s win is yet another milestone in the ongoing movement toward more inclusivity and recognition for Black talent in every corner of the film industry.

Cynthia Erivo, Halle Berry, and Whoopi Goldberg: Style and Tributes

The 2025 Academy Awards also featured powerful tributes and show-stopping fashion moments. Cynthia Erivo’s tribute to the iconic film The Wiz brought back the magic of that legendary musical, reminding us all of the cultural significance it holds. Meanwhile, Halle Berry was the moment, stepping onto the red carpet in a stunning custom Christian Siriano gown that dazzled in every way possible. Whoopi Goldberg also made a fashion statement in a custom Christian Siriano reflective gown that landed her on our best-dressed list for the night.

Black Excellence on the Red Carpet

The Oscars red carpet wasn’t just about winning awards; it was about Black excellence shining in every corner. Anok Yai, Lupita Nyong’o, Coco Jones, Queen Latifah, and her partner—along with a new generation of Gen Z and Zillennial favorites—brought style, grace, and power to the event. Whether in fashion, sports, or entertainment, Black Cosmopolitans across the world showed up and showed out, embodying the richness and diversity of Black culture.

The 2025 Oscars proved that Black talent is not only recognized but celebrated at the highest levels. From historic wins to unforgettable fashion moments, Black excellence was on full display.

Now that the credits are done rolling on the ceremony (more commonly known as the 2025 Oscars), check inside to see who got to give an inspiring acceptance speech and who went home emptyhanded courtesy of a shocking upset.

The full winner’s list awaits inside.

Best Picture

Anora – WINNER
The Brutalist
A Complete Unknown
Conclave
Dune: Part Two
Emilia Pérez
I’m Still Here
Nickel Boys
The Substance
Wicked

Best Actress

Cynthia Erivo – Wicked
Karla Sofía Gascón – Emilia Pérez
Mikey Madison – Anora – WINNER
Demi Moore – The Substance
Fernanda Torres – I’m Still Here

Best Actor

Adrien Brody – The Brutalist – WINNER
Timothée Chalamet – A Complete Unknown
Colman Domingo – Sing Sing
Ralph Fiennes – Conclave
Sebastian Stan – The Apprentice

Best Supporting Actress

Monica Barbaro – A Complete Unknown
Ariana Grande – Wicked
Felicity Jones – The Brutalist
Isabella Rossellini – Conclave
Zoe Saldaña – Emilia Pérez – WINNER

Best Supporting Actor

Yura Borisov – Anora
Kieran Culkin – A Real Pain – WINNER
Edward Norton – A Complete Unknown
Guy Pearce – The Brutalist
Jeremy Strong – The Apprentice

Best Director

Sean Baker – Anora – WINNER
Brady Corbet – The Brutalist
James Mangold – A Complete Unknown
Jacques Audiard – Emilia Pérez
Coralie Fargeat – The Substance

Best Original Screenplay

Anora – WINNER
The Brutalist
A Real Pain
September 5
The Substance

Best Adapted Screenplay

A Complete Unknown
Conclave – WINNER
Emilia Pérez
Nickel Boys
Sing Sing

Best Cinematography

The Brutalist – WINNER
Dune: Part Two
Emilia Pérez
Maria
Nosferatu

Best Original Score

The Brutalist – WINNER
Conclave
Emilia Pérez
Wicked
The Wild Robot

Best Original Song

“El Mal” – Emilia Pérez – WINNER
“The Journey” – The Six Triple Eight
“Like a Bird” – Sing Sing
“Mi Camino” – Emilia Pérez
“Never Too Late” – Elton John: Never Too Late

Best Editing

Anora – WINNER
The Brutalist
Conclave
Emilia Pérez
Wicked

Best Production Design

The Brutalist
Conclave
Dune: Part Two
Nosferatu

Wicked – WINNER

Best Costume Design

A Complete Unknown
Conclave
Gladiator II
Nosferatu

Wicked – WINNER

Best Makeup and Hairstyling

A Different Man
Emilia Pérez
Nosferatu

The Substance – WINNER
Wicked

Best Sound

A Complete Unknown
Dune: Part Two – WINNER
Emilia Pérez
Wicked
The Wild Robot

Best Visual Effects

Alien: Romulus
Better Man

Dune: Part Two – WINNER
Kingdom of the Planet of the Apes
Wicked

Best International Feature

I’m Still Here (Brazil) – WINNER
The Girl with the Needle (Denmark)
Emilia Pérez (France)
The Seed of the Sacred Fig (Germany)
Flow (Latvia)

Best Animated Feature

Flow – WINNER
Inside Out 2
Memoir of a Snail
Wallace and Gromit: Vengeance Most Fowl
The Wild Robot

Best Animated Short

Beautiful Men
In the Shadow of the Cypress – WINNER
Magic Candies
Wander to Wonder
Yuck!

Best Live-Action Short

A Lien
Anuja

I’m Not a Robot – WINNER
The Last Ranger
The Man Who Could Not Remain Silent

Best Documentary Feature

Black Box Diaries
No Other Land – WINNER
Porcelain War
Soundtrack to a Coup d’Etat
Sugarcane

Best Documentary Short

Death by Numbers
I Am Ready, Warden
Incident
Instruments of a Beating Heart

The Only Girl in the Orchestra – WINNER

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Conan O’Brien makes joke about Kendrick Lamar and Drake’s beef at Oscars

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Conan O’Brien
We’re Halfway Through the Oscars …

Time to Call Drake a Pedophile!!!

Serious question Cosmopolitans… Why would that be funny? If it was true why would we laugh about underage abuse? If it isnt true why would laugh about such a subject? We need to stop this because to put it plainly. It is wack.

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Cardi B seeks joint custody, even split of assets in divorce proceedings.

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A History of Black Celebrities in Comic Book Culture

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Comic book culture is truly a world of its own, merging the intersections of literature, art, vivid imagination and made-for-Hollywood storytelling onto the pages of a 6×10 booklet. It’s probably the reason why so many high-profile entertainers of today are making a shift from movies to manga.

Black Hollywood specifically has done a great job when it comes to adding some melanin to the pages, as a result bringing more eyes to the lane of Black comic book creators established by legends like Wilbert L. Holloway (Sunny Boy Sam), Jay Jackson (Bungleton Green), Jackie Ormes (Dixie to Harlem) and pioneer Matt Baker. The legacy continues by way of new age icons like Chuck Brown (Bitter Root, Flawed) plus screenwriters Reginald Hudlin (Black Panther) and Rodney Barnes (Flawed, Killadelphia).

Let’s just say, you may see your favorite Black actor or actress gracing the aisles of a comic book shop near you very soon. That is, if they aren’t already.

As yet another great Black History Month comes to a close, we decided to put together a special BLERD ALERT! feature in tribute to the history of Black celebrities who proved to be just as big of nerds as the rest of us. Some proved to be one-off passion projects while others could still potentially jump off the pages to the big screen in the near future. Either way, we just respect the effort put into storytelling and most importantly the appreciation for art.

Keep scrolling for a quick “BLERD ALERT!” to close out Black History Month with as we take a brief dive into Black celebs who love a good comic strip:

KRS-One – Break The Chain (1994)

Not long after dropping his debut album, now-rap icon KRS-One teamed with Marvel in 1994 for a one-off comic titled Break the Chain labeled under the moniker Big Joe Krash. With original songs included as a way to “listen along,” it was easily one of the illest (and earliest!) combinations of music and media.

Jada Pinkett-Smith – Menace (1998)

Jada paired with now-defunct Awesome Comics for a three-issue run back in the late ’90s that could easily work as a heroine flick. She reminisced fondly on her career in comics back in 2015, writing on Facebook, “I felt then there were not enough comic book characters of color and after all this time… I still feel the same. Maybe this could be a project for a bad ass African American ingenue.”

Mark Davis

The Wayans Brothers – Super Bad James Dynomite (2006)

With all the new energy currently surrounding The Wayans family following the announcement of White Chicks 2 and Scary Movie 6, we can only hope they also revisit the comic series that Keenen, Shawn and Marlon created in the mid 2000s in partnership with IDW Publishing.

M. Phillips

Rosario Dawson – Occult Crimes Taskforce (2006 – 2007)

Blending the best elements of a NYC-based crime series with the fictional-yet-fantastical practice of dark magic worked well in this four-part series. A reboot is always welcomed!

G. Gershoff

Percy Carey (MF Grimm) – Sentences: The Life of M.F. Grimm (2007)

The story of prolific New York rapper MF Grimm, from paralyzing assassination attempts to a thwarted life sentence in prison, could only be told by way of animation. No wonder it was nominated for a few Eisner Awards.

Tyrese – Mayhem! (2009)

Capitalizing on his appearance in the 2009 blockbuster Transformers: Revenge of the Fallen, Tyrese made an interesting deal with Image Comics for a three-issue run penning a story of an LA-based inner-city superhero. The personal tie-ins to his own West Coast upbringing made it a heartfelt read.

Spencer Weiner

Samuel L. Jackson – Cold Space (2010)

As if being Nicky Fury wasn’t enough, our guy Sam Jack went a step further with help from BOOM! Studios to create money-making outlaw, Mulberry. The comedic charm mixed with art that literally feels like stills from a film was the genius behind its four-issue run.

Michael Buckner

Rashida Jones – Frenemy Of The State (2010 – 2011)

Written as a lighthearted alternative to Alias, Rashida Jones still could have some success with this series if they ever get around to bringing the espionage adventures of Ariana Von Holmberg to a suitable streaming service.

Taylor Hill

Darryl McDaniels (as Darryl Makes Comics) – DMC (2014 – Present)

Even though we’re going on year 6 for the arrival of Issue #4 —appears to be coming soon! — the anticipation to see a rap legend immortalized in the comics on his own terms is still a gift in itself.

Paul Butterfield

Amandla Stenberg – Niobe: She is Life (2015)

Not only was this an amazing look for the Black Girl Magic movement overall, Amandla even made history when it became the first internationally distributed comic with a Black female author, artist and central character.

Albert L. Ortega

will.I.am / The Black Eyed Peas – Masters of the Sun (2017)

Blending b-boy culture with Egyptology in a West Coast setting sounds like quite the mix, but the result is beyond your wildest imaginations. The audio component gives even more incentive to become a fan with a voice cast that includes Rakim, Jaden Smith, Jamie Foxx, Charlamagne Tha God, Queen Latifah, Common, Jason Isaacs, Mary J. Blige, Rosario Dawson, Ice-T, Slick Rick, Raekwon, Redman, KRS-One, Michael Rapaport, Snoop Dogg, John DiMaggio, Flavor Flav and, yes, even Stan Lee as narrator.

Michael Tullberg

Jason Derulo – UZO (2022)

For as animated that Jason Derulo is in his life as a social media-savvy pop star, it made perfect sense that he’d turn himself into the hero of a dystopian future with a deep mythology that gives it depth.

Vince Staples – Limbo Beach (2023)

For those who love The Warriors, Lord Of The Flies or just the comedic prowess of Vince Staples, this makes for a great read that we can only hope to see more of in the near future.

Whoopi Goldberg – The Change (2024)

Adding representation from all levels, you’ve never seen a superhero quite like Isabel Frost

Kid Cudi – Moon Man (2024 – Present)

With astonishing art by way of Marco Locati paired with a page-turning plot penned by Cudi alongside Massive-Verse creator Kyle Higgins, the latest addition to the culture might just prove to be the most promising as well.

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Queen Latifah Leads Tribute to Quincy Jones at 2025 Oscars

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The 2025 Academy Awards are gearing up for a historic night, with Queen Latifah set to honor the legendary Quincy Jones.

The star’s tribute will be a musical performance to Jones in celebration of all his achievements. Executive producer Raj Kapoor, who made the special announcement, revealed:

“We’ve planned and curated this beautiful moment that we hope will uplift the room, that will celebrate the spirit of Quincy and all of his greatness. It’s a beautiful moment, and we think it will be very celebratory and make everybody feel really good.”

Oscars bosses make huge announcement over 2025 Academy Awards
Oscars bosses make huge announcement over 2025 Academy Awards

Jones, a music icon and cultural pioneer, received a Governor’s Award earlier this year, making this tribute a fitting recognition of his influential career. Queen Latifah’s performance is just one of many star-studded acts planned for the evening with Ariana Grande, Cynthia Erivo, Lisa (Blackpink), Doja Cat and RAYE also set to grace the stage.

Hosted by Conan O’Brien, the 97th Academy Awards will air live on March 2 2025 at 7:00pm ET on ABC, with streaming on Hulu.

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As a Black woman, I think I have an unhealthy obsession with hair growth

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From coating my scalp in Mielle’s rosemary oil and hunting down the real Wild Growth treatment amid a sea of online fakes, to hanging my head upside down to increase blood circulation and washing my hair with fermented rice water. You name it, I’ve tried it all in the name of hair growth. I was cooking up DIY rosemary hair spray long before Nara Smith got into the kitchen, let’s just say that.

After years of trying everything under the sun, it wasn’t until recently that I realised that my desire for hair growth was nothing more than an unhealthy obsession. As a product of unattainable beauty standards, having short hair was something I’d struggled to accept.

But before I did the big chop (and actually had short hair) my hair wasn’t actually short– it was the shrinkage, something that’s bound to happen with coily, Afro-textured hair and a characteristic of our hair texture that can lead to a fixation on growth for Black and mixed heritage woman. Speaking to Cosmo UK, Samantha Stewart MIT, a trichologist at The Spencer Clinic of Trichology says, “While the growth rate can be slower in Afro-textured hair, care routines and shrinkage can affect how it appears to grow. Afro-textured hair can shrink significantly when dry, sometimes up to 75% of its actual length. This can make it seem like the hair isn’t growing, even if it is. The curl pattern often hides the full length of the hair.”

Shrinkage isn’t the only thing us Afro-textured girlies are at odds with. Digital creator Lesley Buckle tells me about her struggle with hair loss and how visibly it thinned around her hairline led to a fixation on hair growth. “I’ve put my hair through a lot over the years – relaxers, straightening, dyeing and braiding – but ironically, it was fine through most of it. My real struggle with hair loss came after Covid restrictions were lifted in early 2022. Like many, I faced personal losses and stress during that time, which took a serious toll on my body. I think people underestimate how much stress impacts our hair, skin, and overall health,” she says.

“I was more fixated on hair growth when my hair was longer,” Lesley adds. “Long hair is glorified in so many cultures, so I think that played a role in my obsession. When I started losing hair, my frustration wasn’t just about length, it was how visible the loss was. My scalp was exposed when I tied my hair back, and my wash-and-go’s looked so thin.”

Like Lesley, I’ve experienced my fair share of thinning and that, combined with my struggle to come to terms with shrinkage and the insatiable desire to achieve longer, fuller hair, meant that my hair in its natural state was never good enough for me. From trying different chemical treatments and straightening techniques to lengthen my strands to the max, to using bands and other methods to stretch my curls further. My untouched, unstretched ‘fro had become alien to me.

For Lesley, detaching from the constant need to control and manipulate her hair made her relationship with it a lot clearer. “I realised that, for years, I had tried to control my hair in some way either through straightening it as a teen or perfecting my curls after going natural. Hair loss taught me that some things are simply out of my control. It forced me to detach a little from my identity being so wrapped up in my hair. It made me redefine confidence on my own terms.”

The long and short of it

Learning the true growth cycle of hair and understanding the many factors that can affect hair growth helped me to unlatch from my hair growth obsession but, as Lesley explains, it was only once I’d stopped making my hair my entire personality that I was truly able to let my hair be. After all, as Dr Stewart explains, “hair grows at its own pace” so trying to hurry the process along would be a wasted effort.

“While you can help [your hair to] grow stronger, there are no magical shortcuts,” Dr Stewart continues. “Consistency in care will pay off in the long run. While the desire for longer hair is common, it’s important to take a balanced approach to hair care to avoid potential damage and promote healthy growth.”

For me, this included eating a balanced diet, increasing my water intake, caring for my hair with a regular wash-day routine and the use of hair masks for extra strength. This way, I began prioritising hair health, something which Dr Stewart wishes people would do more of. “Healthy hair is a result of consistent care, a balanced lifestyle, and patience. If people focused more on nurturing the scalp and hair, rather than just rushing for faster growth, they’d likely see much more satisfying and sustainable results,” she says.

I’d be lying if I said I didn’t still blow-dry my hair to see how much it had grown three months after my big chop. The truth is, unlearning the myths of hair growth and disconnecting from the idea that hair length equals beauty, is tough. Dr Stewart’s key advice is what sticks with me when I feel the urge to focus on the growth. She says: “What most people want is length, but they confuse this with hair growth. Our hair is continually growing but the length it grows to is different for everyone. Remember, this is genetically predetermined and we cannot extend it, nevertheless certain things can decrease it.”

I’ve forced myself into the discomfort of facing myself with short hair – there have been scary moments when I just wanted it to be over and for my snipped ends to magically reattach, and moments where I’ve rediscovered a new perception of myself, with my TWA (teeny, weeny Afro), that I absolutely adored. I’ve been embraced by friends and family who say they love my natural hair as it is, which has helped boost my confidence.

Switching my focus to hair and scalp health has helped me start to untie my perception of beauty with how long my hair is, but it’s a work in progress and Lesley feels the same. “I wouldn’t say I’m completely detached. I still have thinning areas that I’d love to improve, but I’ve realised that obsessing over it doesn’t help. It was a vicious cycle: stress caused my hair loss, and my hair loss caused more stress. Now, I focus on what I can control – taking care of my body, my scalp, and the hair I do have. If new growth happens, great. If not, I know my worth isn’t tied to my hair.”

Omarion Looks Back on ‘The Millennium Tour’, Turns 40, and Shares Life Milestones

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Omarion is booked, busy, and ready to blaze on the latest edition of ‘The Millennium Tour.’

The R&B star stopped by The Breakfast Club to dish on the trek, which he promises will celebrate 20 years of his solo career and also see him showcase new music.

During the visit to the Power 106.1 show, the performer also waxed candid about turning 40.

He told Charlamagne Tha God, DJ Envy, and Jess Hilarious:

“[40 is] a different level of maturity, a different level of expectation for myself…the things I’m going now. Why I’m still doing it. I definitely feel like I’ve arrived because I’m one of the few entertainers that has grown up in the public eye. So I finally feel I have a arrived at a place where I can have a say so and people understand respect it.”

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Can Synthetic Braiding Hair Be Harmful to Your Health?

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Although significant progress has been made, the Black experience in America has always been limited — and the options for hair care are no exception. Before the rise of the natural hair movement, there were very few brands that catered to a Black woman’s natural texture. Many were using methods like hair relaxers and straighteners to feel beautiful, but these practices were soon linked to uterine cancer. And though beauty companies have since elevated their offerings to include cleaner formulations that serve as an alternative to toxic chemical treatments, the trend of products made for our community being harmful is far from over. The proof is in Consumer Reports’ latest discovery, which found carcinogens in synthetic braiding hair.

On Feb. 27, the company’s researchers published a new study that revealed carcinogens (agents that can increase the risk of cancer) are present in 10 popular synthetic hair-braiding brands, including X-Pression, Sassy Collection, and Sensationnel. Scientists tested each brand for heavy metals and volatile organic compounds (VOCs) and revealed they were found in 100 percent of the samples. Lead, an ingredient that causes skin irritation, was also found in nine of the 10 products, which explains why many users (myself included) have experienced an itchy scalp after getting fresh braids.

Three of the products tested also contained benzene, a known agent that causes acute myeloid leukemia. “It is strictly regulated and discouraged to use in laboratories because of its potential to cause cancer,” Dr. James E. Rogers, PhD, Consumer Reports’ director and head of product safety testing, said in a statement. All the samples also contained a probable carcinogen, methylene chloride, which is recognized by the Occupational Safety and Health Administration (OSHA) as a certified hazard that can lead to cancer of the lung and liver as well as non-Hodgkin’s lymphoma.

These discoveries have created an uproar, especially on TikTok, but the CR team conducted these tests for good reason. According to a statement, when Dr. Rogers and his team began the research in 2024, he had three goals: to determine whether the chemicals were present, whether you could measure them and how much of each one was present, and to find out if there was a way to determine the possible risk to consumers who use these products. He also has two daughters who use extensions to get their hair braided. “I know firsthand that getting braids is part of the culture, and alternatives to synthetic hair aren’t always accessible or affordable,” he said.

He accomplished his mission, but I can’t lie that hearing this news is disheartening — especially as a Black woman who wears braids. And though it’s not entirely shocking, it brings up many questions: Why aren’t there more regulations around hair extension products? Why are Black people put on the back burner in beauty? More importantly, why isn’t this being discussed more so there can be a resolution?

Under CR’s post on TikTok revealing the news, many users expressed their disappointment, commenting, “the attack on black women through hair products & extensions is crazy,” and “this is a form of racism.”

There’s some truth to these statements. Hair extensions are primarily used by Black people and sold in Black neighborhoods, making our people the target market for these products and heightening our exposure to such harmful toxins. It also makes it even clearer how little care there is for our demographic. With these products being (most times) the only affordable option at a local beauty supply, that speaks volumes. Even in 2025, Black people are still not a priority in beauty.

This void in the market is unacceptable, especially with Black consumers representing 70 percent of the hair extension industry, according to market data. We use braids as forms of self-expression, creativity, and connection — and we shouldn’t have to risk our health to get them. It’s time to hold companies more accountable for delivering the high-quality hair we deserve. Our lives, quite frankly, depend on it.